Hi Anti-Tim
True, I'm a hands-on guy who acts on gut feeling. At my work too. I did some start-ups for lines in the pharmaceutical field. Of course I did study for that, but there where others first do complex studies and calculations on for example a workflow with materials, operators, equipment placement, and so on, I do "see" it already while being in the empty space where is has to be build. My gut feeling tells me what the most logical material flow is, where reactors best can be placed, what and where possible safety hazards are, how many operators there are needed, and so on. But being it in the pharmaceutical field, calculations and documentation are mandatory, so I tell how it works best and my colleague translates that into writing
And yes, semantics are a part of it. And also "hear say". Someone heard/did read that you can't get faint(er) objects with a slow scope with shorter exposure times, they agree and repeat that statement as a kind of fact because they have a slow scope. And then indeed like you pointed out: instead of saying "It's difficult", they say "It's impossible".
Personally I don't care but I do care that other starters are missing out on things they can do and learn this way.
And it's not uniquely me

There are more than enough others like me but they keep "silent" because they know that their views are not "popular", despite their results. I've been called a liar for example with my unguided 600sec exposures at 2032mm focal length with my relative simple equipment, I did make it up just to be interesting.
So when asked advise, I'll indeed will always point out that certain things have easier/better ways of working (starting with a Dobson for example, is easier then starting with a long focal length SCT like I did

) but I also point out that experimenting outside the "established ways of doing things", can deliver good and sometimes surprising results.
But most of all: do what you like. You for example like to play with numbers and calculations and I don't. Do we miss out of some things because of that? For sure. But as long we have fun with it and discover things for ourselves, that's what counts.